^^ well, for what it's worth, i don't go along with the hive-mind collectives, make of that what you will.
the person addressed can speak for themselves, and has done. (as have i.)
i apologised for reading too much into it, but i make ZERO apology for my skepticism, as i've NEVER been asked such a question, especially from an administrator. (the net, the great thing about it, is it's a virtual wall.)

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another apology is due from me, for derailing this subject, really sorry OP.
