basement? I hate that expression. I'd like to brank the bitches that use that as a tactic of psychological warfare in order to manipulate a response. "Basement dwellers" are the mad Scientists of our planet that have contributed more to society than their mouths. Stay in the Lab (id est, basement) and contribute to the influx of the river of life.
buff? my dad never had rippling muscles but he was stronger than most of the steroid goons. Anyone can inject and pretend to be tough. Just exercise and strngthen your brain instead.
hot babe? nevermind. I could type a book about this topic. Love the one that destined for you.
no need to leave the site or feel guilty about gaming.
You'll get it over it.
Find a hobby.
spend less time devoted to gaming but there is nothing wrong with a little indulgence.
if you decide to leave, then May you always be in fortune's care or May the force be with you :-D