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Games vs Relationships
Arseen:
Moved this discussion here
From other topic:
BellaKazza:
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--- Quote from: palmer6strings on November 10, 2012, 02:11:29 AM ---I picked all these up yesterday while my Girlfriend and I were on a date.
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My fiancee would absolutely kill me if I was ever able to truthfully utter these words. She is not a fan of my video game collecting/playing.
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--- Quote from: TheN64Guy on November 12, 2012, 09:52:07 PM ---If someone is trying to change you she obviously isn't right for you.
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In terms of relationships, no, you should change yourself if this is the only issue. Relationships and other human beings are more important then your video game collection or any hobby, period. I say this, if video games get between you and your potential wife then you should really give up the games.
Self denial is key to a good relationship.
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Arseen::
--- Quote from: BellaKazza on November 13, 2012, 12:43:07 PM ---In terms of relationships, no, you should change yourself if this is the only issue. Relationships and other human beings are more important then your video game collection or any hobby, period. I say this, if video games get between you and your potential wife then you should really give up the games.
Self denial is key to a good relationship.
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Fuck they are.
I'm single and happy, world is too populated anyway.
And besides like one of my patients said (92 year old woman):
Remember boy, if you want milk you don't need to get a cow.
;D
EDIT:
If we are going to continue this any further we should make new topic for this.
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--- Quote from: BellaKazza on November 13, 2012, 12:43:07 PM ---
--- Quote from: Maben on November 12, 2012, 06:36:45 PM ---
--- Quote from: palmer6strings on November 10, 2012, 02:11:29 AM ---I picked all these up yesterday while my Girlfriend and I were on a date.
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My fiancee would absolutely kill me if I was ever able to truthfully utter these words. She is not a fan of my video game collecting/playing.
--- End quote ---
--- Quote from: TheN64Guy on November 12, 2012, 09:52:07 PM ---If someone is trying to change you she obviously isn't right for you.
--- End quote ---
In terms of relationships, no, you should change yourself if this is the only issue. Relationships and other human beings are more important then your video game collection or any hobby, period. I say this, if video games get between you and your potential wife then you should really give up the games.
Self denial is key to a good relationship.
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You are wrong you should never have to change yourself for someone if she doesnt love you for who you are there is no reason to be with her. I will argue my point untill we are both red in the face.
Arseen:
I'm happy single, I don't need a "better half".
I'm oldest of 10 kids, so I get enough human interaction.
I enjoy being the wierd uncle.
I can take care of my siblings kids, spoil the, and then send them home when I gert bored or they get too wild. ;)
N64 Guy:
Ive got a girl who understands my hobby and actually encourages me. As long as i dont spend all my free time playing video games and or organizing and cleaning everything. Shes more then okay with it.
zygmuray:
Balance, Balance, Balance.
If you cant do this properly with hobbies, work, relationships, and any other duties in your daily life. Your gonna have a bad time.
If you sit there playing COD while your girlfriend is doing house work. Your gonna have a bad time.
If you play WoW on an anniversary/birthday instead of taking her to dinner. Your gonna have a bad time.
Just as she should be flexible with your video game hobby, you need to be flexible with what interests her also. You both need to be able to discuss and compromise.
GB:
i just get my wife to play aswell seems to work out ok :)